I Guess I Give Advice Now...❤

Okay so one of ya'll bloggers out there in this blog world just emailed me and asked me to give you some advice. Well first off I am not an advice columnist, that's what Dear Abby is for. Right? I think so. Well anyways you said you were desperate, an obviously you are if you are coming to me. Okay well let's give it a 
try...
Question:""hello...i am gonna go straight to the point,,,.I am 14 and a frshaman i have been dating a guy for 6 months now ,,initially i don't really like him at all,later i thought i should give him a chance.he was totally into me those days but i wasn't really able to give him much attention,gradually i started falling for him and i liked him a lot,we even had sex.he told me never to leave him and i stand by that promise.but things change when he started avoiding me.one day he broke my heart and he dump me.i was really shocked by what he did. he said he wanted a break. but i never abuse him and i never stop loving him.recently he ask me to be with him again and without any hesitation i accepted him again. i thought he has changed. but he still continue to ignore me.after he text me that he wants me back he again he was silent the whole day.i don't know why he want me back if he is not even interested. please help me figure how to make him love me and realise how much it hurts. please dont sugar coat your answer either i want the honest to god truth about what you think. and what would you do in my situation""

Answer: Okay well first off you can't really make anyone love you. But yeah I went through the same thing. I dated a guy and just lost interest...he was really boring. But you need to stop letting your emotions take over you. I can understand how you might like this guy, but he seems like a total (this is a school blog)...he just seems questionable to me, like he is shady or something. Obviously he isn't fully into this whole relationship ya'll got going on. Maybe he is going through something personally...or maybe he just wanted sex. But my opinion you are only 14 years old you shouldn't be doing that in the first place. Anyways just go up and talk to him about.  If I was in your situation I would go and talk to him. And just ask what is going through his head. And if everything is alright. Then I would flat out say that just because something in your life is going wrong doesn't mean you need to act like a jerk to me, because relationships are about communication and he should be able to talk with you about that stuff.  But you can't just sit around waiting for him to make up his mind. Well there is my answer. Thank you for using The Love Doctor haha.